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Successful on the Outside, Secretly Struggling Inside?

You’ve built success—but something feels off.
Personalized coaching, group programs, and retreats for high-performers tired of using alcohol or habits to cope… and ready to reclaim clarity, purpose, and real fulfillment.

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Do you feel like life is happening to you instead of for you?

It’s time to take back control, break free from the cycle of “almost,” and build a life that truly feels like yours.

In just 30 days, DECIDE 30 will help you
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Gain mental awareness & clarity

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Finally attain deep fulfillment

Living in the Gray Looks Like This:

You feel you “should be happy” in your life, yet you’re searching for ways to cope with the empty feeling inside. 

 You reach for that celebratory glass of wine, beer, or bourbon at the end of every day even though you know it’s affecting other areas in your life…yet you can’t stop at just one.

You’re afraid of exposing your dirty little secret. Your reputation, marriage, and relationships are on the line, and it’s not a matter of if it happens, but when it happens. 

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Welcome!

Life is too short to live in a continual fog.

Here's what's possible when you question your current narrative:

You’ll think sharper and faster.

Feel like you’re stuck and can’t see the forest through the trees? My consulting and coaching options will help you gain mental awareness to see what’s possible for you.

Discover what it means to live in ease, flow and fun.

Right now you may feel like you should be grateful for all that you have, but searching for what’s missing, and this is causing massive stressors in your life. We break down the five core areas in your life that are contributing to your unfulfillment so you can finally breathe.

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You’ll discover a sense of fulfillment and gratitude like never before.

Uncover what’s holding you back from experiencing true fulfillment in life, break free from unhealthy patterns, and get out of your own way so you can pursue what’s most important in life.

 

GET UNSTUCK
FILL THE HOLE INSIDE
QUESTION THE NARRATIVE

“Working with Kari has opened up so many possibilities and paths for me in areas that I hadn’t expected. I’m so grateful for investing in myself. She helped me to become the best father and husband that I can be and I’m excited for my future. ”

-Mark Johnson

“Working with Kari for six months brought out things that were gray areas inside that I didn’t even realize were there! She is direct when she needs to be, yet she does so with kindness. From the very first phone call with Kari, my life is forever changed.””

-Gina Stone

“I initially had reluctance to contact Kari because I never thought I needed or wanted a coach. But months after that initial conversation, it’s been a tremendous asset and investment in myself and I’m glad I did! I’m really excited about what the future holds for me. I highly recommend reaching out to Kari.”

-Danny Kriss

“We are raised from an early age to believe that working hard leads to success. What we aren’t taught is how to navigate the challenges and obstacles along the way. On my journey I found myself stuck and frustrated with my momentum stalled. Kari helped me unpack my limiting beliefs, develop strategies for conflicts and regain the clarity I needed to catapult forward and crush my goals.”

-Gail O’Rourke

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“Kari was available for me whenever I needed her. Between sessions is when I found myself needing her most, she would respond quickly and with well thought out answers, not like she was preoccupied with better things. She made me feel important and not like I was a burden at all. She was so incredibly encouraging that I believed in myself more and more throughout our time together. She helped me with some extremely challenging emotions that otherwise would have impeded my process. She helped me refocus on what I needed for success. She referred me to resources that helped me immensely. Kari always made me feel safe. I knew that on the days I was facing doubt and confusion that hearing back from Kari would flip my mindset 180 degrees. It always felt genuine. She set me up for confidence and success after our time together.”

-Kara Uhrig

“Kari Schwear is the REAL DEAL. Business leaders are constantly finding gray areas in their business. If they continue to exist your business loses. Only when the gray areas get exposed to light and wrestled with, do you clear the gray. And when you challenge your people the synergy they generate creates 10x ideas on purpose and into action. Beautiful work done by Kari Schwear to launch us forward. Thank you!“

-Jerry Naranjo

Clearing the path for your new possibilities

is just a few steps away.

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If you’re tired of saying “I should” and ready to actually shift, DECIDE 30 is your 30-day reset to take back control of your habits, health, and mindset—once and for all.

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If you’re successful but stuck, 1:1 coaching is your next-level move to shift habits, sharpen focus, and lead with purpose—personally and professionally.

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Hi, I'm Kari

Hi, I'm Kari

I know what it feels like to wonder if true happiness is in the cards for you.

Hi, I’m Kari Schwear. And if you’re here, I’m guessing life feels… off.

Not terrible. But not great either.
You’ve checked the boxes, built the success, done the things—
And yet something’s missing.

That’s what I call the gray.
It’s where everything looks “fine” from the outside, but deep down, you feel stuck, restless, maybe even a little lost.

I know this space because I lived there. For years.
Until I got honest with myself—and decided to do something about it.

Now I help high-performing leaders and business owners like you get clear, get real, and get back to living a life that actually feels good.

If you’re ready to stop pretending and start creating real fulfillment, lfret’s talk.
Book a free Discovery Call—we’ll figure out where you’re stuck and what needs to shift.

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